I am a very indecisive person.
I have trouble choosing what shoes to wear, or what kind of ice cream to get.
Big decisions are even harder.
Big decisions i.e. college.
College. The next four years of my life. My future.
I’m stressed. This is a big choice. I don’t want to mess it up.
This decision is prompted by the impending date that is May 1st. When I will NEED to know.
I have 4 schools that I am seriously still looking at. I think.
Penn State University- both of my sisters went, club field hockey, far but not too far, big, party school, lots of options, Ice hockey team
Indiana University- still big, club field hockey, far but not too far, pretty (like so pretty), nice college town, diverse foods, language department huge
University of Dayton- close, friends going… literally idk I applied because one of my teachers told me I would like it (he was also an alum so can I trust him??)
Centre College- far, small, D3 field hockey, nice people, pretty
The issue is no matter where I go, I will be outside my comfort zone.
I will have to adapt. I will have to change. What if I don’t want to change? What if I like who I am now? I’m not perfect but nobody is and that’s okay so why do I have to make myself different? To fit in. To make friends. To become who I am meant to be.
This is a big decision and I don’t know if I have it in me to make the right choice.